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Stop duplicate and impulse purchases before the money leaves.

SafeSpend protects an older or vulnerable relative from repeat and impulse online spending — someone living with dementia, recovering from a stroke, or simply being worn down by subscription traps. It sees what is being bought, not just how much, and checks with you before the payment can go through.

SafeSpend is free. Nothing to change about their bank, their card or the shops they already use, and nothing for them to hand over.

Set up SafeSpend

See how it works

Three steps to set it up, then what happens when someone buys something. About a minute.

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Protection you can shape to the person

Every family is different, so the checks combine however you need:

Duplicates & subscriptions. The classic worry — the same item ordered again, or a subscription dressed up as a one-off price. SafeSpend spots it at the checkout and checks with you first.
Amount limits. Anything over an amount you choose asks you first. Smaller purchases go through untouched.
Sites off-limits. Some websites can be paused entirely — gambling sites are the usual ones.
Gentle reminders. Or the lightest touch: no gates at all, just a soft "are you sure?" moment before buying.

Who it's for

Dementia & memory loss

Ordering the same item again and again is one of the most common and most distressing patterns families see. SafeSpend catches the repeat at item level and quietly checks with a trusted person first.

Stroke, illness & recovery

Judgement and short-term memory can change for a while after a stroke, an injury, or a spell in hospital. Turn the checks up while things are difficult, and ease them back as someone recovers.

Subscription traps & pressure selling

Older people are a standing target for subscriptions dressed up as a one-off price. SafeSpend reads the checkout rather than the bank statement, so a recurring charge is caught before the first payment, not after the third.

Dignity by design. The person keeps shopping normally. SafeSpend only steps in on the purchases that look off. Everything else just works.
Private by design. No browsing history, no card details, no bank access. SafeSpend sees only the purchase being made — the item, the price, the shop.

Get in touch

SafeSpend is free to use, and we'd like to hear how it goes — what it catches, what it misses, what you wish it did. Partners and carers' organisations, we'd love to hear from you too.

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